I finally got it.. decided to try the highest resolution the monitor would support. Although it didnt give me a clearly viewable screen, it was good enough that I could see just enough to load drivers.
At the grub screen, I hit E on the first line, that brought me to another line while halting boot.. Hit E again to edit that line.. I added vga=770 at the end of the line. It brought me to a screen which allowed me to choose from several resolutions, from which I tried almost all... with varying degrees of viewability. Last try was 1600x1200 16bit. Gave me enough of a ghost to see the menu and download the drivers. Re-booted and all is well in Ultimate-land again..
Now its off to the local joint to watch the Superbowl and drink many
in celebration!
Cant wait for the next kernel upgrade to see what THAT screws up...