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ok i have a HUGE rant about this subject it is not that i think i shouldnt pay cuz i do but i think it is bull $#!% that some ppl dont want nothing 2 do with their children but ppl like me (have been in and out of court for more than 6 years now trying 4 custody, have proof that my little girl has O-D on drugs in mothers care, have proved countless times that she is worthless but all atemps have failed on getting custody,and now the kicker almost went 2 jail 4 this 1 we was both ordered not 2 leave the state now she lives in Tennessee witch is 2 stats away clearly she would get charges "contempt of court" but no nothing) now it may b just me but i think if a father wants something 2 do with his child then it should b in the best intrest of the child not the sex of the parent.


any comments?

A co-worker of my wife fought with his lawyer wife for 8 years to get custody of his son. Finally won, but his ex had so poisoned the kid's mind about dad that their reunion didn't even last a year.

People who will use a child as a weapon against someone else should NEVER have custody of ANY child. My biological father was a complete asshole, but my mother never said a harsh word about him in my presence. She felt it was my decision to make about what kind of person he was. Even though it woulda saved me a lot of pain had she laid out the facts as she saw them, I really appreciate being able to make the judgment myself.

Anyhow, what I basically wanted to say was: I really wish ya luck dealing with this issue ( or issues.)

yea i know how that is my own little angel though i was gonna kidnap her because of the lies her mom had told her it is sad that some ppl have that kinda streak in them the worst thing is she only says stuff 2 my little 1 cause i wont get back with her i know i would b able 2 do everything with my little 1 if i got back with my X but she cheated on me and im not sure about the rest of u all but i dont want 2 catch something cux the woman im with is a whore but i do keep my hopes up and i will try till the day i die

What ever you do I hope the best,but remember what you say in here I think can be used in court....I wouldn't be throwing the word kidnapping around lightly....On a public forum.But I do feel ya.

Cell wrote:What ever you do I hope the best,but remember what you say in here I think can be used in court....I wouldn't be throwing the word kidnapping around lightly....On a public forum.But I do feel ya.

yes iv learned this the hard way lol but im not sure she can read all that good lol and the court all ready has that topic on file but thanx 4 the concern kinda like her posting her pics on her myspace of my little 1 naked in the tub ect not something id do but thats just how she is cuz there are a bunch of predators on there but i guess she dont mind some sick twisted ass hole looking at them but i will get custody eventually and wont have 2 worry about it and i ran a serch on how many sex offenders are in my town and 2 my supprise there is 38 know offenders aint that some $#!%. Just wondering if any-1 else has done the same and what was the results feel free 2 share if u want

Let me just say, it isn't fair how the judge makes the decision who gets to see who when and where. Every time I went to pick my kids up, I would see cat feces on the floor in many different spots. Food that has been laying out for days. Clothes laying every where. But, this was typical of my ex-wife. She was lazy.

When we were together, I would come home after a long day at work, 10 to 12hrs, house was in a mess. I would tolerated some days, but some days I would ask why didn't wash dishes, wash some clothes, vacuum the living room etc... She would make the comment "She was to busy watching our son". So, I would say, why don't you run to so and so restaurant to get us some dinner and I'll watch our son why do so. While she was, I would pick up the living room, clean up the kitchen, while all the same time keeping an eye on our son. She would come back, she will notice what I have done and says "I was going to do that since you were home now and could watch our son". That just tore me up inside with here saying that.

What worries me, my kids have grown up thinking living like that is ok. To me, it just shows how lazy you are by not picking up after yourself. They haven't gotten to the point they don't like coming over to my place because they have to pick up after themselves.

Tried to custody, judge wouldn't find her as a unfit mother, because didn't have proof, because every time DHS went to visit, she would get a warning before hand, since she has to relatives that worked for DHS and would clean up to a more satisfactory condition. So, here I am pay child support, not seeing my kids as often as I like.